Ntah ari pe ntah,i was watching Oprah Show ttg Marriage Ref.Ref. is stand for referee.This TV Show only juz for entertainment but,i'd learned something from it.A few married couples were chosen from an argument of their marriage issues.2 or 3 celebrities were invited 2 b a panel.
But,only one person who is REFEREE will make a decison whether the husband or wife is right.
After a few shows,they have a few terms they used to show what are alwiyz happened in a marriage while they're in argument.One of the term that make me interested is,"sinking it" (if i'm not mistaken)..hik2x..dh tua.Mksud term ni,bile suami isteri itu bgaduh,sllny ungkit mengungkit akn blaku.Dan tanpa dsedari sbnrny,xde kna mengena...hahaha...ms tu emo...
What i've learned are,de sstgh isu mmg xdpt dselesaikn selama2nya.sbbnye,byk faktor bbeza atr suami isteri.tp yg pnting,how we tolerate each other n terima seadanya.pernah ku umpamakn 'married is 'bout how 2 find intersection point'.dr perumpamaan ini pun kt sdar,de sstgh pkara kt bbeza pdpt n sstghny tidak...
2nd thing is,'don't be good accountant in ur marriage'...Maksudny,jgn tll bkira.situasi ini biaseny de pd si isteri...myb me?hahaha...kdg2 si isteri bleter,umh bsepah,dia je kna wt sume pdhal same2 keje dll..tp bile pk dgn rasional,wpun tgn melecur ketika masak utk suami,kesan parut itu yg akn bcahaya ketika dhisab kt Hari Akhirat kelak...
Pe2pun,kite hanya mnsia biasa,ingat mengingati atr satu sama lain.Yg pasti,psgn kite bkn milik kita tp milik ALLAH...Bile hakikat ini kite terima,kite xkn risau,xkn gentar pe yg blaku sb ALLAH sntiasa bg yg tbaik utk kite....(",)
